Truth or Fiction: Women More Romantic Than Men…

Guys often get a bad rap as unromantic sloths who would rather drink beer and watch football than give a woman the attention she deserves… but research suggests that this isn’t the case.

Dr Terri Orbuch, a professor and relationship therapist, recently wrote in the Huffington Post that men are actually MORE romantic (sometimes MUCH more romantic) than women.

Surprised? I’m not. Get them talking when they think no one else can hear and most guys will admit to being romantic at heart, but a lot of guys end up being misunderstood because we don’t always know the most appropriate times or ways to express our romantic side and don’t always have the communication skills to let a woman know what we’re really driving at (and it’s more than just a roll in the hay.) …

Added to that, women have increasingly more on their plate these days trying to get the right work-family life balance, it’s not really surprising that romance isn’t always top of their list.

In my opinion, romance is a vital part of a healthy relationship. We need to renew our connection with our partner, and what better way than with intimacy?

But how do you relight the passion you once felt for one another when there is so much going on in your lives? How do you find the time?

The most powerful and effective way I have found is with texting. Cellphones can create immediate, intimate connections with your partner. As long as you say the right thing, of course!

Don’t worry, I’m not going to leave you guessing the right things. I’ve put together some free text training so you can start texting the romance back tonight...

If you want to know more you can continue here

SEXUAL MASSAGE TECHNIQUES

Sexual Massage Techniques by Gabrielle Moore A sexual massage is just something I LOVE to receive from my partner. It always relaxes my body and my mind, and never fails to stir my center till I’m all wet and ready to have mind-blowing sex! I’m sure you want your woman to feel this too so I’m going to give you some basic sexual massage moves you can do tonight. Ready? How to Give Your Woman a Sexual Massage In addition to ensuring that you have the right environment (i.e., a quiet room, a well-laid out bed or place on the floor, etc.) and equipment (e.g. scented candles, massage oils, etc.), consider making use of fabric or items made of silk, satin and velvet as well. All these different textures can help bring about different reactions from her. If you don’t have them, don’t worry. Nothing can beat the best part of this sexual massage session: you. Firstly, ask your woman to undress (or better yet, undress her). Another tip here to ensure good hygiene is to give her a warm bath first. Either way, once she’s nude, have her lie face down on the area you prepared for the massage. While she has her back to you, undress as well. Use your hot breath. Make sure your body and hands are not cold and then lie on top of her (you facing the back of her head). Support your weight on your arms (don’t crush her!). This move does three things: it signals the start of the sexual massage by applying pressure on her whole body; it helps to warm her body and prepare it for the massage; and it starts to introduce sexual thoughts into her head because she can feel your penis between her thighs. Now don’t get carried away here and start sex. Proceed with the sexual massage and you will be rewarded as the sexual tension builds up! Now, start to breath on her neck and her back. Your hot breath should stimulate her sensitive skin. Use your fingertips. Now, pull yourself up and straddle her thighs (your penis resting between the backs of her legs), put some warm oil on your hands and start to massage her back with just your fingertips. Alternate your strokes. Apply hard, pressured ones with light touches. Palm circling. Progress from using your fingers to ‘palm circling’, which is basically massaging her back by applying the whole width of your hand. This is a firmer technique that helps her body really relax. As a general rule, never massage her on the bones. Place the palms of both your hands on her back and move them in circles, firmly outward and away from her spine. Gliding. Scoot yourself lover down her body. You buttocks should be by her feet now. Now reach to the top of her shoulders and start doing the palm circling massage… but this time, glide down to her ass and start massaging there too. After a few strokes, you can be naughtier with this one. Reach to the top of her shoulders again but this time, keep your head low so that your face is right in front of her ass. (Like kneeling and bowing to someone.) You can do the palm circling again while breathing hot and heavy against her ass. A slight – and naughtier variation – would be to lick her ass instead of breathing your hot breathe on it WHILE palm circling her back. (Hey, don’t forget the massage part even while you’re busy sexually arousing her.) Thumbing. Go back to straddling her thighs, sitting up now, and use your thumbs to massage her lower back. You should make short, rapid, alternate strokes with each thumb, moving up and across her ass toward her waist. Continue up the right-hand side of her body all the way to the shoulders. Repeat this on the left side of her body and finish off by going back and concentrating again on her lower back (just above her butt). Now for the sexual part… continue to thumb massage her while your hands move slowly down her butt. Part her crack and start to thumb massage her anus. She will try to squirm here but be firm! If she can take it, alternate between this massage and breathing your hot breathe on her anus. Repeat all these back massages as long as you want! Just remember to oil up often as the warm oil and the gliding effect of your skin on hers does a lot of sexual magic! If you want to know more you can continue here

Have you ever wondered why your man does the things he does?

Have you ever wondered why your man does the things he does?

My friend Randy Bennett explains in his latest article below exactly why men do 

some of the strange things that they do.

But more importantly, he details how you can use this knowledge to get your man to 

treat you better - and wake him up to the amazing woman he has right in front of 

him - YOU!

Randy's a licensed relationship expert, with 25 years of experience counseling 

successful couples - so I think he probably knows what he's talking about.

Did you ever wonder why men do some of the CRAZY things they do? Did you ever 

feel completely puzzled by your man's behavior?

If it seems like sometimes his behavior is completely weird or irrational, don't feel 

bad... because you're exactly right.

You see, science teaches us that while some of our desires and drives are conscious, 

many of them are not. This is ESPECIALLY true for men.

While most men would NEVER admit this (most don't even know it), some of their 

behaviors, drives, and desires are biologically driven.

Why Sometimes Men Don't Have a Choice...

In other words, in some areas, men don't have a choice. They are simply "wired" a 

certain way.

This is why he can seem considerate and thoughtful one moment, and callous and 

cold a few seconds later. 

This is why sometimes you're caught off-guard by his unexpected harsh words, or 

cold behavior. It's why you're sometimes left feeling as if he "pulled the rug out from 

under you".

But don't worry. None of this is an excuse to let him get away with stupid behavior. 

In fact, it's a key to getting what you want from your man.

To Get What You Want from Your Man, Understand This...

Change starts when we recognize the simple biological differences between men 

and women. For instance....

Women generally want connection and family: they define themselves by their 

relationships.

They have the nurturing instinct, the need to take care of others and maintain the 

health and wellness of the people they care for.

Men, however, generally identify themselves by what they do: they want to be 

providers.

A man has a need to take care of the family and be the breadwinner. It is a 

subconscious need -- most men are not even aware that they have this need or drive.

While men have many of these subconscious drives, there are at least five basic 

needs that all men have deep within themselves; if any of these needs are not being 

met, it will cause problems in your relationship.

The 5 Basic Needs that ALL Men Have...

What are these needs? They are: 

1. Words of affirmation and praise. 

2. A sense of being respected.

3. The feeling that he is being listened to and heard. 

4. Physical touch. (This doesn't necessarily mean sex, but rather affection.) 

5. Intimacy and bonding (yes, believe it or not!)

All you have to do is meet these five basic needs, and meet them consistently, to see 

your relationship transformed right before your eyes.

Meeting these needs gives you a great deal of influence with your man -- he'll be 

willing to do almost ANYTHING you ask, at the drop of a hat, because you have 

suddenly become the source of most of the good feelings he's having about his life. 

He may not even realize what's happening.

The best part is, this is "ethical influence" because you're meeting his most basic 

psychological needs. Not wants, but needs. It's as if you are nourishing his soul.

And what do YOU get out of the deal? The man you want -- the man who adores you, 

shows true affection towards you, and puts you ahead of everything else in his life.

I wish you the best,

P.S.  A man's brain and behavior can be tough to predict, but I've identified a set of 

secret triggers, that when accessed, will wake him up so he's more interested in 

what YOU are saying than in the darn remote control.

By using a particular set of words and phrases - triggers that set off new patterns in 

his brain - you will cause your man to automatically... see you... hear you... 

UNDERSTAND you...

... to listen without criticizing, and let you share your feelings without trying to "fix" 

you.  And the best part is that I figured out how to do this without trickery, 

manipulation, begging, or drama.

If you want to know more you can continue here